24 51 0 Moments of hate, love and joy affect ^ deeply and continue to affect ^ long after the experiences have passed. @ may hold grudges because @ has a hard time forgiving and forgetting. 52 0 @ does not get really excited or upset very often. When @ does get really upset, @ is usually able to calm down and let go of % anger in a reasonable length of time. 53 0 When @ gets upset about something, @ quickly calms down, finds a peaceful solution, and moves on to other things. 23 0 @ tends to feel tense and may be apprehensive about facing % feelings and accepting them as they are. 11 0 @ believes in ^self. @ is confident that @ will be able to find the necessary resources within ^self to meet the challenges @ is faced with. 12 0 @ presents ^self to others as someone who is very important - as someone who stands out above the crowd. 71 0 @ is very modest and may lack self-confidence. Sometimes @ feels small or unimportant and doesn't see ^self as being a major force in % environment. 72 0 @ is modest and sticks to the basics without fanfare or frills. 73 0 @ has developed an appropriate sense of who @ is, and doesn't tend to over or under-estimate ^self. 74 0 @ wants others to think @ is totally self-confident and @ doesn't like others to question % competence, even in areas where @ is not competent. 31 0 It is very important for ^ to stand out from the crowd as someone who is special in % own right, because of % own achievements. @ wants to be thought of as a unique individual rather than as part of a group. 32 0 @ is proud of % family heritage, and identifies with many of the traditions and values which % family and culture endorse. 33 0 @ is proud of % family heritage, and identifies with some of the traditions and values which % family and culture endorse. 33 0 At the same time, however, @ also wants to be recognized as someone who is special in % own right and valued for % achievements as an individual. 52 0 @ is able to adapt to varying external pressures and force ^self to do the things that need to be done. 53 0 @ is able to adapt ^self and % approach when @ needs to. 94 0 @ tries to be adaptable to a variety of situations but, as a general rule, tends to be inconsistent in % responses. 94 0 @ may have mixed feelings about % willingness to become involved, as @ alternates between approach and avoidance. 92 0 @ is adaptable and many-sided. @ is not rigid or prescribed in % behavior. 61 0 @ tends to exercise self-restraint and reflect before @ acts. 101 0 @ is not only unwilling to reveal personal matters, but @ is unable to reveal them. Part of ^ is locked up and unable to find expression, so @ tends to be silent more often than most people. 115 0 @ is creative and likes to express ^self spontaneously. @ feels most comfortable in an environment which encourages innovation and freedom of expression. 116 0 @ depends on % instincts to guide ^, and trusts that @ will find a way to survive. 83 0 @ has carefully cultivated % sense of taste and exercises good judgment in aesthetic matters. 0 0 0